Curiosity can be a major antidote to the judgments of right and wrong that so often color our perception of others and limit our capacity for empathy. Curiosity, with true openness, can intercept, and often implode, our assumptions (assumptions being a birther of judgments).  Understanding what others care about – and Why – is ultimately at the root of creating connection and helping to reduce the polarization that is becoming more deeply embedded in all aspects of society.

We blame the left or the right while failing to see that progress doesn’t come from preaching to those who share our beliefs or demonizing those who don’t. Growth, expansion, and collaboration come from having the curiosity (and courage) to listen without judgment, especially to those we don’t agree with, so that we can learn where others are coming from, recognize our differences and common humanity, and create opportunities for healthy dialogue, problem-solving and bringing out – if not the best, at least the “better” in all of us.